Everything you need to know about the meaning of BDSM

If you’re reading this, you must be new to the world of kink! Regardless, of how you discovered your interest, you’re here now! One of the most popular kinks, amongst feet, is BDSM.

The idea of tying people up or being tied up, has fascinated people for centuries. You’re wrong if BDSM started with 50 Shades! BDSM has been around forever. If you don’t believe me, Google Betty Page!

There are a thousand different branches of BDSM and the fetish surrounding it, so it would be impossible to explain every single tiny detail about the greater umbrella of bondage… so I’ll break down the basics as much as I possibly can!

I encourage you to go beyond this article and explore the different, more specific facets of the kink!

1. B is for Bondage

B stands for bondage in the acronym of BDSM. This refers to being tied up. Bondage can literally be anything! Bondage can be handcuffs, or a strategically used pillow case, or complex rope ties known as Shibari.
There are a lot of classes you can take in cities that have dungeons and large kink communities where you can learn how to use these methods of bondage safely.

2. D is for dominance/discipline

D has a double meaning in this acronym. Let’s talk about discipline first. Discipline is to encourage behavior through punishment. Discipline can either be physical or mental! The dominant (which I’ll get to in a second) can chose to take something pleasurable away from their partner or introduce something like pain in order to encourage them to act the way they want.

D is also for dominance. The dominant in a scene is the one who is in clear control. This person is in charge of their submissive (we’ll get there) and is essentially the “boss” in the scene. (Though you can’t do anything without the submissive’s consent!)

3. S is for submission/sadism

The S stands for two things as well! Let’s tackle sadism! A sadist is someone who derives pleasure from inflicting pain on someone else. This is someone who likes to see someone “suffer” whether that be physically or mentally (have you noticed BDSM is just as mental as it is physical?!).

S is also for submission! The submissive is the servant in the situation. This person gives up control of their body and allows the Dominant to take charge in the sexual situation!

4. M is for masochism

Masochism is where someone enjoys pain. More people than you’d expect like to feel pain! Pain releases endorphins which, in turn, make us feel good!

Of course, none of proper BDSM sex is done without considering the risks, being safe, and making sure both parties are consenting to everything going on.

Here come some more acronyms! The way players keep track of these things is through using more acronyms: RACK and SSC are two of the most popular. They mean risk awark consensual kink and safe sane and consensual respectively! You can’t have BDSM without RACK or SSC!

Top 5 Hottest Porn Stars Ever

1. ) Stormy Daniels

Stephanie Gregory Clifford was born on March 17, 1979. She is an American adult film actress, screenwriter, and director in the industry. She is mostly known by her stage name Stormy Daniels and she is also known as Stormy Waters and, just  Stormy. She is actually a member of the NightMoves, AVN and XRCO Halls of Fame. Back In 2009, a recruitment attempt ended up with her challenging David Vitter for the 2010 Senate election in her native state of Louisiana. She made a cameo in the popular film, The 40-Year-Old Virgin.

2.) Susy Gala

She isn’t really a new pornstar, per se. She’s actually been in the industry for years. But compared to when she made her first debut in porn she is a totally whole new woman now, and that is meant to be taken in the sweetest way possible. Back then, she probably wouldn’t ohavewon herself a place on this list, just because of the way she used to look. However, nowadays,  she’s probably the sexiest Spanish pornstar as of currently. You probably won’t be able to find much of her on the more famous sites such as Brazzers, however, if you take a trip over to Cum Louder you’ll find videos and videos of her- for free as well! She’s definitely the biggest pornstar in Spain.


Eva is from Orange County. She began her adult acting career at the age of 18 and has earned herself various awards which include the 2008 AVN Award for Best Actress. The June 2010 Penthouse Pet of Cuban, Chinese, English, and Irish descent, Eva could very well be referred to as the Tiger Woods of the porn industry. What is also pretty freaking sweet is that Eva Angelina possesses the hottest screams ever, making her even more insanely sexy. You’ll have to watch your volume when you go to watch her in action.

4.) Kimmy Granger

Kimmy Granger was born on May 17, 1995. She is an American Adult film actress straight out of San Diego, California. As soon as this vixen turned 20, she made her world debut on the pornographic silver screen back in 2015. Since that moment she has been on top of the porn world, banging out more than 125 scenes for companies such as Reality Kings, Hustler Video, and Kick Ass Pictures. This year she was just nominated for the AVN and XBIZ Awards within the category of Best Breakthrough Actress. She also earned an AVN nomination for Best Male / Girl Sex Scene for Do not Break Me with J-Mac.

5.) Tsubasa Amami

Tsubasa Amami was born in Hiroshima in March of 1988. This completely amazing starlet has been cast in various Japanese TV shows along with becoming one of the most well known Japanese Avenue Idols, or adult entertainment icons. Her career started when she was a bikini and nude photographic model before she gave the adult video world a try. She would eventually come to the 2nd place for the Japanese Avenue Idol competition and she is also one of the most often searched on Japanese porn sites. Her gorgeous facial features, hot slim body, and sexy boobs make her one of Japan’s most beloved porn actresses.

The video below shows the top 25 hottests porn stars in the world!